Vibrators don't work for me, at least not in a vibratey sense - the one I have just stays switched off and gets used as a dildo. Clit is too sensitive for anything like that touching it, it just makes me numb and sore if I try.

I have been a bit overexcited this week, but I think the sore fingers are actually down to Spike misjudging a grab yesterday during a tug of war game - he's bruised one of the tendons on the back of my hand.

Ah well. It's the price I pay for loving boys who play rough... :-D