I've got it all here in my head; there's nothing more needs to be said

[lizblackdog]

I promise I'll try and post something not a meme soon. In the meantime, I borrowed this one from silverblaidd:

Step 1: Visit Oceangram (http://www.oceangram.com/)

Step 2: Create a Message in a Bottle. Write something worthwhile about the world, yourself, your experiences, something or someone that you love. Write something you've been wanting to say for awhile, or a poem that you know by heart. Make it interesting.

Step 3: Send it out.

Step 4: Wait until you are delivered a bottle. Open it, read it, and tell us what it said. (You may reply and send it on its way, too. And no, we won't consider it cheating if you wait for one worthwhile.)


I am falling in love with a man I barely know and never get to see. We talk on the phone a lot but that is it......what should I do?
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How about, for starters, actually seeing him, go on dates, and do the sort of things you do, when you first get to know someone. Also, before doing all that, make sure he isn't already married or in a relationship with someone else.
AmyR AUS 21/11/07
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Good advice, take it.
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Here here. See him more often and you'll assess whether you want him or not and whether or not it can work.

My added comment: I fell in love with my husband, a man I barely knew and had never, at that point, met, during the course of a five-hour phone call. It can work. On the other hand, a relationship of this nature - pure communication, pure mind-to-mind contact - can be ruined if you drag it into physical reality. Keep communicating and be very sure you're both on the same page before you take it further - and good luck!