not to mention its nice to have that unconditional love. no strings attached, no guilt trips or mind games, no grudges, just love and joy. ok, maybe attempted guilt trips over food, but thats it.
if it were me, i'd want help filling out the form. i got so overwhelmed at all the appeal forms i had to fill out for ssdi that i gave up and hired a lawyer to handle it. i was worried that i would write the wrong answer or write the answer in the wrong way and i'd be denied over something stupid, so i totally understand your anxiety.
its ok to want help, and its ok to need help. it sounds like there are people out there who can help you tackle this form and i think it would be good to take advantage of that. we've all got enough stress in our lives without adding to it.
*hugs* do what you gotta do to get thru it. you're strong lady.
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Date: 2009-09-17 06:39 pm (UTC)if it were me, i'd want help filling out the form. i got so overwhelmed at all the appeal forms i had to fill out for ssdi that i gave up and hired a lawyer to handle it. i was worried that i would write the wrong answer or write the answer in the wrong way and i'd be denied over something stupid, so i totally understand your anxiety.
its ok to want help, and its ok to need help. it sounds like there are people out there who can help you tackle this form and i think it would be good to take advantage of that. we've all got enough stress in our lives without adding to it.
*hugs* do what you gotta do to get thru it. you're strong lady.