"I'm not going anywhere" - Major Kira in Heart Of Stone

[lizblackdog]

It's dark, it's pissing with rain, I have two loads of laundry and a bag of books and shopping. Too much to walk home with and Mum's fallen asleep, so a lift doesn't look likely.

Besides, I haven't hoovered yet, there are likely to be fireworks again tonight, I'm immensely enjoying reconnecting with my huge stash of DS9 episodes on videotape and Mum has about a pound of chocolate left over from Hallowe'en.

Extreme laziness is hereditary, yes... I'd download Gaim while I'm here but I'm afraid if I do that I may never leave.

(oh yeah - still horny. It's one of those more-you-get the more-you-want things, evidently...)

Comments

[james-the-evil1.livejournal.com]

but wasn't that as much the lack of CONTACT as it was the lack of sex itself?
I have plenty of physical intimacy, I couldn't live without that

[lizblackdog.livejournal.com]

That was a large part of it, yes. But physical intimacy without sex is almost equally frustrating. I can cope with it if I've had definite advance notice that there won't be sex - otherwise the disappointment and frustration is worse than the absence of contact would have been.

[james-the-evil1.livejournal.com]

but if it's a given there won't be sex it shouldn't be an issue
rather like cuddling with a family member or less hairy/smelly dog

:-D

[lizblackdog.livejournal.com]

I cuddled my dogs PLENTY in those three years - I still do, but it hardly comes close to compensating for lack of sex...

It's still an issue. But if I've been given clear notice that sex isn't happening I can control myself.

Just.

[james-the-evil1.livejournal.com]

*eyes you suspiciously*
I think if I ever come visit I'd need to tie you to the bed, just to be safe

[lizblackdog.livejournal.com]

That's always fun! :-D

[james-the-evil1.livejournal.com]

fun HAH
I'm trying to make sure you don't molest me while I sleep